The ABCs of Estate Planning: B is for Beneficiaries

If you’ve ever looked at your accounts and thought,
“I think everything is set up correctly…”

you are not alone.

Beneficiary designations are one of those areas that feel simple—but in practice, they’re one of the most common places where estate plans fall apart.

Because here’s the key:

👉 Your beneficiary designations often control what happens to your assets—regardless of what your will or trust says.

So if they’re not aligned with your plan, the documents you carefully signed may not actually do what you intended.

Let’s walk through how this works—and how to think about it in a way that actually makes sense in real life.


What Actually Passes by Beneficiary Designation?

Not all assets are treated the same.

Some assets pass through your trust or will. Others pass directly to a named beneficiary, outside of those documents entirely.

Common examples include:

  • Retirement accounts (IRAs, 401(k)s, TSPs)
  • Life insurance policies
  • Payable-on-death (POD) bank accounts
  • Transfer-on-death (TOD) investment accounts

These assets go directly to the person (or trust) listed on the beneficiary form.

No probate.
No reference to your will.
No reference to your trust—unless it’s named.


Retitling vs. Beneficiaries: Where the Confusion Happens

This is one of the most important distinctions in estate planning—and one of the most misunderstood.

Assets typically retitled into your trust:

  • Brokerage accounts (non-retirement)
  • Bank accounts (checking, savings)
  • Real estate
  • Business interests

These are assets where:
👉 Ownership can be changed during your lifetime
👉 Your trust can step in seamlessly in incapacity and after death


Assets that should generally NOT be retitled:

  • Retirement accounts (IRA, 401(k), TSP)
  • Life insurance policies

These accounts are designed to pass by beneficiary designation.

Retitling them into a trust during your lifetime is usually not appropriate and can create unnecessary tax consequences.


So… Should You Name Your Trust as Beneficiary?

This is where the real decision-making comes in.

There isn’t one “right” answer—but there is a right answer for your situation.


Option 1: Name Individuals Directly

Why this works well:

  • Simple and efficient
  • Fast access after death
  • Often the most tax-efficient for retirement accounts
  • Minimal administrative burden

Where it can fall short:

  • No structure or oversight
  • No protection for beneficiaries
  • No coordination with the rest of your plan
  • Can create issues for:
    • Minor children
    • Blended families
    • Beneficiaries who may benefit from guidance or protection

Option 2: Name the Trust as Beneficiary

Why this can be powerful:

  • Integrates assets into your overall plan
  • Allows for staged or controlled distributions
  • Provides asset protection and oversight
  • Creates consistency across all assets

Where to be thoughtful:

  • Adds a layer of complexity
  • Requires proper drafting to work as intended
  • Can impact income tax timing for retirement accounts

Retirement Accounts Deserve Special Attention

Retirement accounts are where these decisions matter most.

Under current law, most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the account within 10 years.

That means:
👉 The timing of distributions can have a meaningful tax impact

If a trust is named as beneficiary, it must be carefully structured to:

  • Qualify as a valid beneficiary under IRS rules
  • Avoid accelerating income taxes unnecessarily
  • Still achieve the control or protection you’re aiming for

This is one area where coordination between your estate plan and your advisor really matters.


A Practical Way to Think About It

Instead of asking:

“Should I name my trust or my kids?”

A better question is:

👉 “Do I want simplicity—or structure?”

  • If your beneficiaries are financially mature and you want ease → individuals often make sense
  • If you want coordination, protection, or staged distributions → the trust may be the better choice

A Few Real-World Examples

Married Couple

Often:

  • Spouse is primary beneficiary
  • Trust is contingent

This keeps things simple while preserving flexibility.


Minor Children

Naming children directly is rarely ideal.

Instead:

  • The trust is typically named
  • This allows assets to be managed until they’re ready

Blended Families

This is where alignment really matters.

A trust can:

  • Provide for a surviving spouse
  • Preserve assets for children from a prior relationship

Without that structure, outcomes can be very different than intended.


High-Earning Beneficiaries

In some cases, naming a trust can:

  • Help manage timing of distributions
  • Avoid pushing beneficiaries into higher tax brackets in a single year

Common Mistakes I See All the Time

  • Beneficiary designations that were never updated after major life changes
  • Accounts still naming an ex-spouse
  • A trust is created—but never coordinated with beneficiary designations
  • Minor children named directly
  • Assuming “everything flows through the trust” (it doesn’t)

A Quick Check You Can Do

If you want to sanity check your plan, ask yourself:

  • Do I know which accounts pass by beneficiary designation?
  • Are those designations aligned with my current wishes?
  • Do they match the structure of my trust?
  • Would my family know how to handle these accounts?

If any of those answers feel uncertain, it’s worth taking a closer look.


Final Thought

Beneficiary designations are one of the most important—but often overlooked—parts of your estate plan.

They don’t take long to set up.
They don’t feel complicated.

But they determine where your assets actually go.

When they’re aligned with your overall plan, everything works together.

When they’re not, even a carefully designed plan can unravel.


Next up in the series:
C is for Core Documents (we’ll break this into two parts—Wills and Trusts)


Mary Ellen Bowman is the founder and Principal Estate Planning Attorney of The Bowman Firm, a Northern Virginia based firm focused on providing clear, strategic guidance to help families make confident decisions and avoid costly mistakes.